What are some tips for making your husband fall madly in love with you again after going through the worst phase of your marriage?

Telling me that he was going out for a few drinks with his mate but at 07.30am I couldn't get hold of him!

What a dumbass!

Then he tells me that he had always been in love with me and wanted me to leave my husband and go and live with him up north!?

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Any accent above London is a no go for me!

I then found out her name which he had tried so hard to keep me from finding out and now I know why!!

Firstly…what complete and utter bullshit! If he did it just to hurt me then when he got back from trying to get jiggy with some sad ugly fuck that he met on Facebook dating he would have told me! That would have hurt me and it would have proven to me that he actually did it for that reason! Telling me that I'm paranoid and that he hadn't betrayed with anyone me told me that he did it because he wanted to!

My girlfriend told me that she wants to move in with me. I have my own apartment and I like my peace and quiet, but I also love her. We've been together for a year now. What should I do?

Also it made me feel like he was fighting for me (not that he would ever have to) and he was showing me some attention (even though it was the wrong kind of attention!)

He kept denying it because he thought that he could carry on seeing her behind my back if I didn't know about her!

At that point I should have told my husband but like a fucking idiot I carried on talking to him still trying to brush off the ugly dick pic and trying to bring it back down to the old times when we were just friends!

What is chudai?

Last laugh is that she said from the moment she met him she knew he wasn't her type and also said that he was shit in bed! 😂😂

I was absolutely over the moon that she was the only one who answered his dating messages!

After reminiscing about the past he told me that he had always been in love with me and then sent me a dick pic!

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I nearly fell off my chair! 😳😳

I instinctively knew that he had betrayed me and I could feel it somehow!

I was talking to a couple of guys online because I felt unloved and neglected by my husband.

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He said that he did it just to get back at me and hurt me for talking to men online and it was all my fault!

He gave me everything that I needed to know when I found out that he was on Instagram!

We were just having a laugh!

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The heartbreak and loss that I feel now literally has destroyed my entire world!

Which it was doing until I installed Instagram and saw his account?

10 minutes later he gave me his phone and said here you are I've got nothing to hide!

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At that point I should have told him to fukk off and block him on all my social media..why I didn't I still can't explain to this day! It's like I was still just seeing the lonely sad 16yr old that I felt sorry for and still couldn't believe that he had sent me a picture of his ugly dick!

Of course he denied everything but when you have been married to someone for over 20yrs you instinctively know when they are bullshitting you!

Jealousy made me feel wanted loved by him!

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I didn't see it as cheating and I didn't know how much that it would hurt my husband!

One of them is telling porkies and my husband says that he is telling the truth which I doubt very much!

Absolutely wrong fukkin move dumbass!

Why is my ex mad I moved on when he dumped me?

Needles to say that I've screenshot all of her messages! 😂😂😂

If she hadn't have fukked him off then he admitted that he probably would have seen her again!

He was working hard and long hours or me and our children

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I asked him to install the app in front of me which he did but he was sweating like a nun in a porn shop when I asked him to give me his phone!

I am such a fukkin idiot!

I thought that it was fair enough as I didn't want my husband worrying about him!

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HOW THE ACTUAL FUCK DID IT ESCALATE TO THAT!?

My husband thought that we were getting to close (despite never having mentioned sex or leaving my husband) so he blocked him from all of my social media!

I have lost the air that keeps me breathing!

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My husband then had the cheek to ask me why I hadn't defended him when she said that!

If I could turn back the hands of time then I would in a heartbeat!

Of course I messaged her and she actually answered me!

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Where the fuck did that come from!?

He point blank refused so that told me that she was on his Instagram!

Why is it always me!?

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I live in southern England and I don't do the north!

That night when he was asleep I checked his Instagram and he had moved her to the “don't accept any notifications from this person”

I refused and said that he should have given it to me when I asked as now I know he's deleted any evidence!

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

I went on there solely to try and find the woman and when I asked him about having an Instagram account he denied it despite me showing him his account!

I had absolutely no idea how to handle the situation so I tried to brush it off and made a joke out of it!

Why would she need to lie about anything?

Despite his telling me to stop talking to men online (Facebook friends) I then started talking to an American friend who made me laugh, knew that I was married and never ever once did we have any sexual desire or talk about it!

One of the guys was someone that I knew from 15yrs ago and we were good friends!

We were FRIENDS!!

After many long arguments and endless efforts by me questioning him about her (which he gave me absolutely no information on except her name, he finally admitted it to because she told him that he wasn't her type and wasn't interested in seeing him again!)

I thought that I could handle the situation by trying to take it down a notch and remind him that we were just good friends.. but obviously I couldn't and it didn't happen!

A year down the line my loyal, faithful and trustworthy husband cheated on me with the ugliest pig that you could ever fukk!

How did it go from reminiscing about 40yrs ago as good friends to then getting a picture of his fukkin takle!?

The absolutely hilarious icing on the cake is despite her not being drop dead gorgeous as I'd imagined the whole time, but when I actually found her and saw her picture It made me feel like a super model!

His cover was blown when I asked him to install the Instagram app (he thought that by deleting the app and reinstalling it when he wanted to send or receive messages) would cover his ass!

Her account of events are totally different to what my husband told me but despite everything she has absolutely no blame in the situation!

I used to have the most loyal..trustworthy and loving husband in the world until I totally fukked everything up!

My husband found everything on my laptop (which I think secretly deep down was hoping that would just to get me out of a situation where I had no idea what to do!)

Never anything sexual and I had absolutely no intention of leaving my husband for any of them at all!

It absolutely broke his heart and he said that I was going behind his back by talking to these guys and not telling him.

At that point I just wanted any attention that I could get from my husband!